I once read a book that asked, “what would you do if you were 10 times more bold?” My initial thought was, “Wow, I would get in a lot of trouble!” You see, I am pretty assertive, and assertive people (with two X chromosomes) sometimes get in trouble in this society. Sometimes assertive people (male and female) are seen to lack gentleness, tact, understanding, or empathy. But if you ask an assertive person they would say they are honest, direct, and highly value getting the best result in a timely fashion. Interesting how we see the same actions in a different light...hmmm.